wheh..this morning like other morning was drama in various genre. It started at home, which i have to delegated things to do to my mom and my assistant mia. Things like preparing Inggrid for the school then Theo since he still get cough till now.
When i was delegated the tasks, my mom was feeding breakfast for inggrid instead she ate herself.
Actually me and my husband is have rule for this issue, that my daughter have to eat by herself (breakfast, lunch and dinner) we don't want her to become depend on someone to feed her since she is 8 years now.
To saw what happened my husband complained to my mother and asked inggrid ate her breakfast by herself. But my mom replied it is fine for her to fed inggrid. I absolutely believe that my mom love my children so much she doesn't like to see her grandchildren being discipline from they parent. For inggrid, she so happy that her opung defend her but in other side she become hate her parent and that is not right.
Then after that on my way to the office my husband is upset and complained about my mom and ask me to remind my mom about our rule. Actually this is not the first time my husband upset about that and I'd reminded my mom about this over and over again, but my mom has her own reason, she said to me once "you know..every body in this house is hard to inggrid, she feels alone no one cares for her, so if i have to hard to her too so who's gonna be her friend in this house? that's why i keep feed her every time she has to eat"..well it makes sense then in my heart i let my mom doing like she said because not every day my mom in my house so i let her. But not for my husband, rule is rule, zero tolerate.
However, this morning we got farel to school. Thank's God he already wants to wear his uniform and eat his breakfast by himself. This morning i was talk to his teacher miss Nur and asked wheter she could give private course for farel in home and she wants to arrange the time and let me know later.
But what makes me worry is miss nur report to me about farel behavior in the class. When the teacher is giving lesson he always busy for himself like pretending fight and playing fire gun instead sit in his chair.
so miss Nur asked me is farel always watching tv at home and i said yes he is obsessed with transformer movie that is why he acts like that.
Well, i'm really concern about this issue, because i often said to my husband not to buy another transformer dvd again for him, because farel becomes brutal and like to pretend playing fire gun and fighting by himself.
For me this is another chapter for being parents to have "examination" like this, and i have to find out the best solution for this issues. So help me God.
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